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Monday, January 21, 2008

Seijin No Hi - Coming of Age

 Every year on the second Monday in January, young adults celebrate the coming of age. Turning 20 in Japan is important like turning 21 in the US and turning 18 in Australia, it signifies a new era of rights and responsibilites - adulthood. In Japan, turning 20 means legally becoming an adult in the eyes of the law thus being able to vote, drink, smoke and even marry without their parents' consent.

The day starts off early with girls getting ready with hair appointments and getting dressed in their furisode kimono. For many young adults this celebration marks the first time they "officially" wear traditional adult clothing. The first part of the day is usually the more formal public ceremonies followed by private parties or celebration at restuarants.

Unfortunately this year, I forgot about seijin no hi so I missed seeing the young adults all gathered at the city hall. I would have loved to see the girls all dressed up in their pretty kimono and hairstyles... I was lucky though as we were waiting to see 'National Treasure' at the movies a group of young guys were roaming around American Village celebrating and cheering. It was quite a spectacular sight watching them cheer and all dressed up in the traditional hakama. Unfortunately I didn't get to take pictures but lucky enough I managed to have this one pic with the boys. Maybe next year I'll get to see the girls in their kimono ^_^

seijin-no-hi

Before heading off to the movies Reid took me to this really nice little burger place by the beach - Sea Side Jet City Burger's. I loved it there. The atmosphere and ambience was really nice especially sitting out doors facing the ocean... Really gives the whole tropical island sort of feel. Nice place to just chill.

jetcity

I had the Hawaiian Burger set. It was sooooooo good!! I finished the whole set on my own ^_^. Portion size is perfect for me. Not too big and not too small. However for the guys or people who are really hungry the portion size may not make you 100% full however it'll be enough to satisfy your hunger. Also I think this is a great little place to go on a first date hehehe...

burger

hawaiian-burger


Thursday, January 03, 2008

Countdown 2008 & New Year's Day - Okinawa Style

 Airport

New Year's Eve

The night started with us picking Kevin and Kana at the airport.

They got in around 10.45pm then we headed over to Ole Bar in Matsuyama to countdown the new year!

The bar provided everyone with cups of soba noodles. Kana told me that is it tradition to have soba noodles on New Year's Eve.

Five minutes to midnight, the MC started to get the crowd ready for the countdown. Everything was in Japanese so I didn't really understand but once it was 12 midnight everyone cheered and wished each other Happy New Year. At this point, Japanese drinking songs were being played and the crowd sang along to the songs and cheered and drank. Too bad I don't understand Japanese as I would imagine that it would be so much fun singing and drinking to those songs.


Ole

Reid-and-Deb

Ole Bar ran an arm wrestling competition both for males and females. It was fun to watch especially watching the females arm wrestle. Both Kana and I were encouraging each other to participate in the competition LOL!

New Year's Day
Around 2am New Year's Day, we all left Ole Bar and headed to Naha Shrine for food and games!There were lots of people at Naha Shrine. I loved it! There were plenty of food stalls and game stalls. My fav is the Yakitori, which are chicken pieces on skewers on a hot fire grill... YUM :p

Yakitori

Once we climbed a couple of flights of stairs to the shrine, we tossed money into the shrine and clapped our hands twice, closed our eyes and made a wish.

Naha-shrine

The boys then were playing games trying to win prizes for the girls. Lets just say after a night of drinking, it is amusing to watch the boys play hehe...

Superhero1

Iron Man and Stealth Man = inside joke hehehe :p

Fight

New Year's afternoon we went to the Futema Shrine. It is tradition to visit the shrines on New Year's and to buy 'Omomori' which are like good luck charms. There were all sorts of charms. Good luck charms for the house, car, relationships and study to name a few. We made a wish again like the one we did at Naha Shrine. Before making a wish it is tradition to cleanse your hands first with water.

Cleansing

Futema-shrine

You can get your fortune told too for a 100 yen sort of like a fortune cookie but more detailed. You pick a fortune out of a box. Once you've read your fortune, you tie it on ropes like shown in the pic below.

Fortune-telling

After visiting Futema Shrine, Reid took me to a nice little restaurant for some Okinawa Soba! Yum~~ ^_^

Okinawa-soba

I had the 'San Mai Niku Soba' set (top right hand corner). It is pork with vegetables on rice and Reid had the 'Tonkatsu Donburi Soba' set (bottom left corner) which is fried crumbed pork with egg on rice.


During my stay here in Okinawa, I've noticed that in a lot of restaurants there's this button by the table that you press when you are ready to order and it goes ping-pong when you buzz it.

Ping-Pong

I'm loving my stay in Okinawa!! It is different from mainland Japan though...it's more laid back and easy going pretty much like the Gold Coast. It is great experiencing life in Okinawa, Japan. I'll tell you more about my trip in my next post.


Friday, May 04, 2007

I believe...

I've basically taken a year and a half off uni...not a thing that most people would do. Actually a lot of people I know just wonder why I don't just finish up my degrees ASAP instead of "wasting time" - that's what they call it...

Well to me it was a personal choice I made. A risk maybe, BUT a risk I was willing to take...

The question is, why do we all go to uni for??

  1. Get a degree to get a good job
  2. To be a successful person
  3. To be accepted in society - for status

There can be heaps of reasons but I'm sure the bottom line is MONEY and that's a fact and reality...

To me, I didn't believe that going to Uni study hard and get a degree was the only way to achieve all that. If that is the way to go then why are so many people still running around in the rat race of life?...I've seen some of my own friends all study hard, graduate and to come out from uni score a great job and to end up working even more and are busy all the time!

Is this the sort of life I wanted?

NO!

I refuse to conform like everyone else. I realised I had to find other alternatives and if I had to give up 1.5 years of study for the pursuit of my future, I was willing to do it!

After all I'm still young and what is 1.5 years anyway? and even IF things don't go my way or how I intend it to be, in other words i've FAILED. At least I can walk away from this all and know that I MADE things HAPPEN; that I DID something about it...I didn't just sit there and think "WHAT IF?" but instead acted on and pursued what I believed in. I've learned and grown so much over this period of time. It's been tough at times but I know deep inside that this is all worth it.

Now your question would be, 'what have I achieved then in these 1.5 years?

Well...all will be revealed in time to come...

Whether I succeed or not, only TIME can tell. I'm excited and look forward to what the future holds for me!

I believe I can
I believe I will
I believe I know my dreams are real


Being a uni student again...

Yesterday I accompanied my younger sis Jessica to her uni, Griffith University Gold Coast campus. She had 2 lectures on today with a 2 hour break in between so she asked me to come along...I thought I'd go and have a look at what it was like to go to Griffith. It's always been a joke between us for me to transfer from the University of Queensland to Griffith GC just so I don't need to travel all the way to Brisbane . Apart from that, today gave me the opportunity to have a 'feel' of what Bachelor of Hotel Management is like. I'm currently doing a dual degree of Bachelor of Business Management (majoring in Real Estate and Development, REDE) & Bachelor of Commerce at UQ.

I've realised that I DO NOT enjoy REDE at all and just can't picture myself working in the real estate industry. Plus I couldn't stand the REDE lectures at UQ. They're just dry, boring and all the lecturers are the same - all just monotone and lifeless!

At the end of last year I was fortunate enough to have met Joshua and Haigo from Hong Kong who are both in the Events Management Industry. They asked me to help them out with their local Gold Coast events. The event was for 400 corporate delegates from AXA Insurance Hong Kong. (I'll put up another post all about this event on a later date and I'll put some pics up too )

Anyways I really enjoyed working for Meeting Masters Ltd for their events. A lot of friends say that I'd do well working in PR or anything related with dealing with people. This really made me think and I got really interested in doing Bachelor of International Hotel and Tourism Management (BIHTM). Ie been thinking about it for quite sometime nowowever Ie only got a year and a half left towards my degrees so I not too sure whether it a wise thing to do, to change from REDE to BIHTM. Oh well, I guess Il only know after an appointment with the academic advisors.

After attending Jess lectures at Griffith, I pretty sure BIHTM is what I want to do.

Well wish me luck and wel see what happens.


Monday, April 30, 2007

Lazy and just bumming around

I've been back in Australia for over a week or so now. Been sick since but I'm fine now. When I was in Hong Kong I had a few things in mind that I was gonna do as soon as I touch down in Australia. The top two things that I wanted to accomplish was (1) get a job (2) learn how to drive!

Being sick was one of my excuses for not getting anything done but now that I'm all well...let's just say I'm trying to find other excuses for not accomplishing anything lol...Before going on a holiday, I was pretty much a workaholic. Working almost everyday and trying to score as many hours as possible for work. But now that I've quit my job before traveling to Malaysia and Hong Kong, I've got to go through the whole process of finding another job!  and with my bank account not looking so healthy after all my shopping in Hong Kong I really do need to get off my bum and find a job!

However after 3 months of not working I've realised that I'm starting to get lazy and procrastinating about looking for a job. Being lazy is just a minor thing but the main factor that is making me procrastinating is just having to go through the whole searching, interview, handing in resume process..sigh..it's just stressful and tiring...oh and not to forget the whole adjusting to the new work place and people that you have to work with..

Alright and now learning how to drive...this one I've been battling since I was 16 and having got my learners lol...Im just terrified of being behind the wheel! I seriously need to get over my fear of driving. I've realised how inconvenient it is not being able to drive. I don't know why but somehow whenever I'm in the driver's seat my mind just goes blank and I just lose my sense of direction. Seriously everyone should be happy and is safer without me on the road  hahaha

Oh well I better just stop procrastinating and just get it over and done with! Determined to get my drivers licence before my learners expires again! It's embarrassing to keep renewing it  lol

Alright, as Han Ji-Eun in the Korean Drama 'Full House' always says 'Aza aza fighting!'

Hehehe 'AZA AZA FIGHTING!'

I will get it done!



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